{"id":4128,"date":"2012-06-18T10:08:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-18T07:08:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2025-02-23T20:53:25","modified_gmt":"2025-02-23T18:53:25","slug":"message-to-our-2012-high-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/epalestine.ps\/sambahour\/2012\/06\/message-to-our-2012-high-school\/","title":{"rendered":"Message to Our 2012 High School Graduates"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\">\n<p><strong>By Sam Bahour<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At the outset, I extend my respect and thanks to the teaching<br \/>\nstaff and administration staff of Palestine\u2019s<br \/>\nschool system. Teachers and their support staff are the wheels and gears that<br \/>\nproduce a society\u2019s human capacity to face today\u2019s challenges. We should hold our<br \/>\neducators in much higher regard than we hold up the superficial role models<br \/>\nbeing force fed to us by today\u2019s mass media.<\/p>\n<p>Also, congratulations to all the parents of our graduates,<br \/>\nespecially the mothers who are our society\u2019s unsung heroines.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, my sincere congratulations to each and every one<br \/>\nof our Class of 2012 graduates. You are the reason this message was written.<br \/>\nEach of you is a shining star. As you pick-up your diploma you are formally<br \/>\nentering a new threshold of life.<\/p>\n<p>Many may believe that today marks the key milestone in your life\u2019s<br \/>\njourney. They are wrong. There is no one key milestone; today merely marks one<br \/>\nimportant day of many.<\/p>\n<p>Your life is like a train and it has already left the<br \/>\nstation long ago. This train does not stop for anything, it simply changes<br \/>\ntracks.<\/p>\n<p>Your train will shift tracks much more often after you leave<br \/>\nthis hall. With each shift of tracks your focus will readjust.<\/p>\n<p>As you come to the end of the track of your secondary<br \/>\neducation and enter onto the track of higher education or vocational training you<br \/>\nmay feel a bump, but the train does not stop.<\/p>\n<p>You will need to choose a discipline to guide your career. I<br \/>\nknow that this is a hard choice, especially since our education system does not<br \/>\ngive you the full ability to make your own choice, but do not worry. Education<br \/>\nis not locked up behind the walls of your university. Formal education teaches<br \/>\nyou <u>how<\/u> to learn, but <u>learning<\/u> is an action you can do wherever<br \/>\nyou are. The world is literally at your fingertips; never let anyone limit your<br \/>\nability to learn to a classroom.<\/p>\n<p>To date, you have been spoon-fed knowledge, at times, more<br \/>\nwillingly than others. From this day onward it is totally your choice if you decide<br \/>\nto continue to acquire knowledge or not. Regardless, your train will keep<br \/>\nmoving.<\/p>\n<p>As your train enters onto the tracks of employment or family<br \/>\nlife you will feel more bumps. These are the real bumps, like the speed bumps and<br \/>\npotholes in our streets; they come with little warning and no signs. If you are<br \/>\nprepared, these bumps will be manageable. Prepared or not, one thing is for<br \/>\nsure, your train will keep on moving.<\/p>\n<p>More important than your train\u2019s inevitable movement is who<br \/>\nand what you will take for the ride.<\/p>\n<p>Allow me to stretch the train analogy one step further. For<br \/>\ntrains to stay on the tracks they have four wheels, each made of steel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wheel #1 is your family<\/strong> \u2013 Today you are in the<br \/>\nlimelight. Today is your day, but you would not have reached this point if it<br \/>\nwere not for the love and care of your family. Someone registered you to attend<br \/>\nschool, someone paid for your education, someone made you sandwiches for lunch<br \/>\nevery day, someone did your laundry, someone made sure you did your homework,<br \/>\nand that someone made sure you look your best today. Give back to your family;<br \/>\nyou owe them more than you will ever be able to pay back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wheel #2 is your community<\/strong> \u2013 The best of families do<br \/>\nnot exist in a vacuum. An old African proverb says: <em>it takes a village to<br \/>\nraise a child<\/em>. The second you entered this world the community around you molded<br \/>\nyour character. You can chose to be on the receiving end of your community\u2019s<br \/>\ninfluence, or, you can choose to be one of the active community members that<br \/>\ndefine the community you live in. As Palestinians, community is key; it is what<br \/>\nhas held us together until today. Our sense of community has allowed us to<br \/>\nuphold our just struggle for freedom. Without community we become dull human<br \/>\nbeings, rolling along in our empty train.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wheel #3 is your health<\/strong> \u2013 Without health all else<br \/>\nmeans very little. Health comes in many packages, first is your physical<br \/>\nhealth. Stay fit, move, and be active. For those of you who think spending<br \/>\nhours-on-end at the coffee shop smoking an <em>arghela<\/em> is cool, call me one<br \/>\nday and I\u2019ll walk with you through the cemetery to show you where all the other<br \/>\ncool smokers are resting. In addition to your physical health is your mental and<br \/>\nspiritual health. Keep your mind and heart stimulated. Don\u2019t become numb smart<br \/>\nphone dummies or satellite TV couch potatoes. Instead, read, interact on the<br \/>\nhuman level, not only in chat rooms, and then, read some more. If you are not<br \/>\nreading a new book every month, your train is being passed up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wheel #4 is your set of values<\/strong> \u2013 You, and only you,<br \/>\nwill decide what your set of values will be. Remember, if you don\u2019t stand for<br \/>\nsomething, you will fall for anything. As you enter this new stage of your<br \/>\nlife, define what you stand for. Don\u2019t accept mediocre, <em>mashy al hal<\/em>,<br \/>\nwhen you know you can do better, does not create excellence, <em>ma\u2019alaesh,<\/em><br \/>\nwhen you see something that is wrong, does not promote continued improvement, <em>Inshallah<\/em>,<br \/>\nwhen you have no intention to act, is better not said. Set your values high,<br \/>\nmake them known, and continuously adjust them as you learn more of the<br \/>\nchallenges of living in the 21<sup>st<\/sup> century.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, never, never, never allow your train to derail. Oil<br \/>\neach and every wheel, each and every day.<\/p>\n<p>Again, I salute each of you and thank you for giving me the<br \/>\nchance to participate with you on this joyous day.<\/p>\n<p>Mabrouk.<\/p>\n<p><em>This was given as the keynote speech at the American<br \/>\nSchool of Palestine 2012 Graduation Ceremony, May 26, 2012, Best Eastern Hotel<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>NOTE: Arabic translation published at:\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alhayat-j.com\/newsite\/details.php?opt=1&amp;id=176140&amp;cid=2623\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/www.alhayat-j.com\/newsite\/details.php?opt=1&amp;id=176140&amp;cid=2623<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Sam Bahour At the outset, I extend my respect and thanks to the teaching staff and administration staff of Palestine\u2019s school system. Teachers and their support staff are the wheels and gears that produce a society\u2019s human capacity to face today\u2019s challenges. 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